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A fight with a friend, just needed to vent

July 25th, 2006 at 02:16 am

I am sure I have vented before about my friend but she drives me crazy. Nothing is ever her fault it's always some one else. If my ex would send the child support on the 1st versus the 5th I can pay my bills, the money I lent my cousin ( 100.00) is the reason I am in the hole, I don't have any one to help me, if I can find a man to help me pay my bills. That was the straw that broke the camel's back, why do you need a man to help you pay your bills when he did not help you get them. I mean would you really want to be with someone with almost 20,000 in debt and have nothing to show for it. I said to her have you tried looking in the mirror and ask what am I doing wrong, like a cell phone I don't need, or cable I hardly ever really watch, or is it the fact that I buy breakfast 5 out of 7 days a week oh that's not it I just bought sandals that I needed but my CC bills and rent are behind oh not that either I need a break and I am going to Jamaica. I mean get your priorities in order. I am so sick of her with all the excuses. I told her about this site, you think she has post anything, I mean this is a good form of financial therapy in which she needs...it took me a minute to wake up and smell the coffee, basically stop wanting what everyone else has and look at myself and where I want to be. She got a big check form her divorce and she can't tell you what she did with it, yeah she has nice furniture, but here is the kicker it is too big for her place.

1 Responses to “A fight with a friend, just needed to vent”

  1. HouseHopeful Says:
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    Amber, I'm sorry to hear about your fight. I know its hard sometimes when a friend isn't ready to hear tough advice. But I definately understand your fustration with her. I'm sure things will work out with you both and maybe your conversation will cause her to think about her situation.

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