My sister called and was upset because she did not have any money, she wasn't complaining to borrow but she was upset because she'll see my mom today and did not get her; well gave her any money for her birthday and she does not want to see her but she will and I know my mom she will definately ask for her entitled money. Anyhow we decided to go out for lunch and split her bill so for me that is a good thing, since the only money I have is to really pay for my tuition, which is almost $2k not including books. Plus I have to see the eye doctor ($225) plus get an oil change all in with in the next few weeks. So I am really pinching my pennies
Thinking back to my sister, it is sad because she never have any money, and I do mean litterly. She will not stop shopping and cut back on the hair appointments, which are tough for me as well but some times I just don't go.
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I hope you guys come to something that feels good for all of you and it sounds like the best time to talk about it is right after your moms, since it seems to be the biggest issue with her. Good luck
April 21st, 2008 at 04:17 pm 1208794656
We had to do this a few years back when my husbands expanding extended family continued having these huge night before Xmas gift exchanges. We have just started having our own exchange within our own immediate family. I've totally stopped all of the birthday stuff with the older nieces and nephews. It's too much already.
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