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Had the conversation

January 5th, 2013 at 07:28 pm

Well I had the conversation with the BF and explained that all bills are due on the 1st therefore I need the money by the 25th of every month.

I told him he needed to get on a budget and for the first month or so it would be hard. I also gave him the total of what to expect each month and suggested he should put X amount of dollars away each week.

I can only make the suggestions but I'm sticking to my guns, this is a new year and I have a goal to meet, in addition I can't let him hold me back.

Glad we had the talk, we'll I did, he really didn't say much

On a different note, my sister called to borrow money. She hasn't did that in a while. I gave her the $20 that I've had in my purse for a week. The reason I said gave is because I'd be surprised if she paid me back. Don't lend money you can't afford to lose. Apparently she called my mom and she said no.

As you all know next month would have been a year that I have spoken to my mother and to be honest I'm somewhat okay with it. But lately she has been calling. Once for Christmas dinner and today for me to take care of some things. She has yet to apologize, and honestly I don't think we wil ever have a good relationship but at this point it is what it is. I will say this I have plans of being best buds.

Well that's it in a nut shell, my next post will be about money and today's totals.

5 Responses to “Had the conversation”

  1. Petunia 100 Says:

    Good job on sticking up for yourself and setting boundaries, Amber. I hope this marks the end of BF not paying his fair share. Smile

  2. frugaltexan75 Says:

    I hope your bf holds up his end!

  3. veronak Says:

    Thanks me too.

  4. LuckyRobin Says:

    You might want to ammend that for February, since it is a shorter month, you'll need the money sooner to get the bills mailed on time.

  5. veronak Says:

    You're right LR, I never thought about that. Thanks Smile

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