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Nice surprise

January 1st, 2013 at 04:13 am

Went to visit my dad and my brother gave me $20.00 Smile
I simply added it to my challenge. This was a really nice surprise.

Well I'm bringing in the new year alone , the BF decided he did not want to leave his mother alone. I think I'm being selfish but it's almost a month since his dad has died and he has spent all his time with his mother, so much that I asked him if he'd like to move in with her.

Even his other siblings has gone about their day to day activities.

I am aware that things change when death knocks but , don't forget I'm here too.

Just needed to vent a little.

Have s happy and safe new year's.


December 30th, 2012 at 11:11 pm

Tomorrow is the 31st and before the year has ended I'd like to pay off CCs 1, 2, and 3. This will mean that the EF will be a little bit low but atleast I'll have three CC paid off and half way to paying off the 4th.

I asked the BF for the $400 he was short and received it. I told him what the bills average a month and the day I'd like the funds (25th) each month. At this point I explain I do not care how he gives me the money so long as he has his share by the 25th.

Having the discussion

December 28th, 2012 at 04:10 pm

Well I plan on having a heart to heart with the BF. He has to do better financially. He spends money foolishly and now he is short $400 for this month's up coming bills.

The day after Christmas he took his entire family to breakfasts and spent $200 because that's what his dad use to do and he feels responsible to take care of the family. That's fine so long as you can afford it but you can't. I know he is grieving but he has to think rationally.

Next he finds out his 16 year old daughter is pregnant and I have made it clear she cannot live with us. Now if he wants to move out and help raise his grandchild that is fine with me because I'm not going to foot that bill.

What a year

December 14th, 2012 at 01:36 am

This year is ending on a sour note. My BF losses his dad last night and it was unexpected.

Please keep him and the family in your prayers


December 6th, 2012 at 10:32 pm

Wow my boss was fired, I personally do not think it was right but who am I.

The job is very demanding, we are all working beyond what we should for hardly any pay or benefits for that matter but I am thankful for a job.

I'm a little sad about it though.

Where does the weekend go?

December 2nd, 2012 at 04:57 am

I am not sure where the weekends go but this one zoomed right on by.

Friday wasn't a good day, my boss and mentor was terminated. It really saddens me. Yes what she did was wrong but the demands that was put on her, I believe and everyone else with the exception of the CEO believes she had no other choice. I'm really sad about it. A written warning should have been provided.

On a different note, I haven't been to the gym since Thursday Frown
Today I bought dinner, so I added $20 to my challenge/debt. I also forgot to add the $9 from yesterday so that was also added.

We put our first tree up and it came along pretty well so I'm excited about that.

We also attended out local community's tree lighting, that is always fun.

I can't think of anything else so I'll end it with that.