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He’s Gone!

August 5th, 2019 at 07:11 pm

So SO, is gone. He still have things here he needs to get but he’s gone.

I was working from home and at about 6:30 I noticed he wasn’t here. I’d decided to get my sewing 🧵 machine out to make some things. Then it was 8 o’clock and I notice he still wasn’t here. I was thinking, is he not coming back? Then he called, saying it feels strange he wasn’t here. Me, I’ll admit was a little nervous but didn’t give in, I’m just glad he’s gone.

Maybe, this will help him to get a handle on his life. 1) take over the business from his mother 2) help the daughter but let her know that it’s her role to assume the responsibility of the grand kid, her kid and 3) focus on himself and where he sees himself in the next few years. I’m wishing him the best, he’s a nice guy, but it’s no longer my problem to worry about what he should be doing.

13 Responses to “He’s Gone!”

  1. mumof2 Says:

    yah you have the house to yourself...but it might just be what he needs to get his life back on track

  2. creditcardfree Says:

    I can imagine it's a mixed bag of emotions since you have spent significant time together. I'm glad it wasn't too painful getting him to leave. I pray for you both to find peace.

  3. AnotherReader Says:

    There is a better man out there for you. One that works as hard and is as responsible as you are. One that carries his weight. One that will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Just keep looking in the right places. You will find him.

  4. Jenn Says:

    It's been a long time coming! Now you can focus on your future.

  5. Joanne Says:

    Amber, you were patient with him. In the end you will be happier. You can concentrate on your own life. If he can't stand u to his own Mom , thats really hard to deal with.Hope that you feel at peace.

  6. Wink Says:

    I really believe this is best for both of you. You deserve happiness!

  7. CB in the City Says:

    It is really hard to be firm with a person who is making bad choices. You stuck to your guns, and you did it, so congratulations!

  8. kashi Says:

    Good job!! I know it's a mixed bag of feelings and will continue to feel that way for a while. It will eventually pass. I'm so proud of you for putting yourself, your mental health, and your future first!

  9. crazyliblady Says:

    I also hope this gives you some peace. Have you changed the locks on your home?

  10. Lucky Robin Says:

    A whole new chapter of your life opens up now.

  11. rob62521 Says:

    Yahoo! A new adventure in life begins with a lot less drama!

  12. GoodLiving Says:

    I'm glad you stuck to your decision and your limits. I don't wish ill on him but we do teach people how to treat us and you definitely deserve better in your life.

  13. frugaltexan75 Says:

    Glad to see this Amber!

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