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Breaks My Heart

August 3rd, 2023 at 11:20 pm

I'm not saying I'm perfect, Lord knows when it came to finances I made some mistakes; however I'm taking those mistakes and learning from it. 

I was chatting with my ex, thank God he no longer lives with me, and he was telling me how hard he was hustling to come up with $700 to fix a roof. $700!

 I don't know why but I felt so bad for him. All I can think was that you are 51 years old, in a job that is high risk that can cause you to stop working in a split  second and you're struggling to come up with $700. It's really sad. 

he always have the nerve to say "I've never been in this position."

I had to remind him that he's always in that position and that when he gets a check he needs to put something aside. 

Poor guy, he's got a big heart, but what he's doing, taking on caring for his mom 100% without preparing for his future, is a huge mistake. 

3 Responses to “Breaks My Heart ”

  1. Lots of Ideas Says:

    Amber you have such a big heart.

    Remember that you cannot save him. Why does he tell you his money problems?
    please keep your help to sympathy and advice and keep the Bank of Amber closed!

  2. crazyliblady Says:

    I agree with Lots of Ideas. He is a big boy and is not disabled. He should be able to deal with these issues on his own. So, please don't loan him money, as it only feeds the monster.

  3. Amber Says:

    Nope, I’m not lending him any money, I’ve done that and I’m done. Thanks everyone

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