Was all I could say. My uncle came by in tears because they are going into forclosure (or already has). Apparently my aunt is responsible for paying the bills and has been keepng this little secret, that the mortgage is past due. My uncle who came home earlier than usual, got the mail. This is why when you are married, as a "couple" everyone should be involved.
I have a friend who has no idea how muh money her and her husband has because he handles everything
Wow
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He said that since he was laid off and things has been slow (he has his own business as well) and it was mostly my aunt's money paying the bill he thought ok he would let her over see everything (since it was her money)again. He thought that this would be fair. Well in my eyes it is our money no matter who makes it, because when he was brining in the bulk she had no problem doing the same thing
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I am so sorry for your uncle.
January 26th, 2008 at 06:53 pm 1201373634
I handle all of the books also in the house, but my husband doesn't have alot of interest in it, but he trusts me to handle things. The spouses really do need to be involved. It's extremely important.
January 27th, 2008 at 03:12 am 1201403528
This is just another example why I'll never go blind into finances again, regardless of what situation I find myself in.
I hope that all works out for your aunt and uncle.
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I feel for your uncle. If it wern't for my Grandma helping me all the time, we would have been out on the street a year ago. She tells me not to worry about paying her back until I get my tax check. Too bad everyone else wants a piece of it too.
Tell your uncle to check out refinancing. The timing couldn't be better. He needs it now, and rates are lower. My best friend's parents are in danger of losing their home too. Where will they go? They have two grown children at home too. The 30 year old has been paying the utilities, and the 21 year old is being stupid and 21. Pray for all those who need it!
February 3rd, 2008 at 09:44 pm 1202075041
I would have him call as soon as possible. Hopefully he can save his house.
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