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Come on August

May 12th, 2013 at 12:19 pm

As you all know so much is happening in August:
- Graduatiom
-$20k pay increase
-Moving out

I am so excited because its a few months away but I do not know how much longer I can deal with the BF.

Every month he is short, I'm sick of walking on egg shells because every Christ thing reminds him of his dad. I'm sorry he lost his dad, but it doesn't mean that I should be tip toeing around feelings every day.

For example today is Mother's Day; I too have a mom (not the best relationship) but I'd like to run by her house and not spend hours at his mom's. Also, ripping the house apart at 11pm at night looking for a pair of shoes that you already have another pair exactly like but refuse to wear because you wore them to your dad's funeral and getting upset because I asked the question why not just wear those is absolutely ridiculous just like burying the $100.

I'm just simply trying to make sure that the CC debt I have is paid off as much as possible and my raise kicks in before I move

5 Responses to “Come on August”

  1. rob62521 Says:

    Sorry things are not working out with BF. It sounds like he needs grief counseling before it totally destroys his life. Hope things continue to look up for you.

  2. snafu Says:

    Amber, if you're visiting BF's mom, can you quietly give her a head's that that son needs help to cope. Perhaps she can get some direction from her religious leader. I wonder if it would help to write out a statement for BF, showing his arrears in rent, holiday costs and any other debt your are carrying.

    Do you have a damage deposit from your current place, or deposit for utilities? is there any procedure for ending your lease?

  3. veronak Says:

    Unfortunately, the BF mother is just as bad. I've mentioned counseling for both but they refuse. As far as the lease goes there is a penalty; however, I've made up my mind that I will simply pay for whatever the penalty is.

  4. Jenn Says:

    I will be cheering for you the day you move out!

  5. snafu Says:

    Is it time for this guy to be given a different status, perhaps Roomie as this relationship went off the tracks long ago. He doesn't act like a BF and isn't thoughtful or considerate of Amber. I see him as Deadbeat but if you liked him there must be redeeming aspects I missed.

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