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What's happening

April 17th, 2016 at 06:37 am

So the brunch was a hit, everyone wants me to do it again next year. We are actually going to turn my idea into a for profit business. Of course my mom was not there to support, but that's typical.

Dad has been in the hospital since Wednesday, he was doing well but then boom he started acting up, removing his oxygen and trying to remove his cath, we had to restrain him 😢
In mother news, today is her birthday and somehow she managed to have my sister in tears. Nothing hurts more than words and wanting to have a relationship with your mother. I explained to my sister that, though I understand, she's going to have to try really hard and let things go. Our mother, I've learned is just plain old evil. There's no getting around it. She's always negative, only do things so that others can say she did this or that, never from the heart. With her there is always a motive as to why she does things. Our dad said it best, she can't love because she doesn't know how, and she hasn't learned to forgive.

Financial news I was able to still add to the house fund, reaching $3400, hoping to hit 5k by June. I've been spending a lot more since dad has been in the hospital, dining out has been the culprit.

4 Responses to “What's happening ”

  1. laura Says:

    I'm so sorry. It all sounds like a lot going on. I have an emotional divorce from my biological father; he tried to make things better and reach out while we were dealing with my husband's cancer diagnosis/surgery/treatment in February. And then he was upset that I wasn't very receptive. I was cordial and civil, but once the wheel is flat, it can't be easily inflated to what it was before.

    I hope that your dad rebounds, that your sister heals, and that you take care of yourself. (hugs)

  2. Ima saver Says:

    Hope dad feels better soon. Sorry for all you have been thru.

  3. Dido Says:

    I'm so sorry for all of the parent issues going on for you at the moment. At least it sounds as though you have made some kind of peace with what you can vs cannot get from your mother, and that must help. Congrats on being able to add to the house fund despite the additional financial stress!

  4. rob62521 Says:

    So sorry. Hope dad improves. Sorry your mom isn't being nice. Hang in there!

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