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April 12th, 2018 at 10:42 am

I hate my job but I am truly thankful that I have one. There's some really evil folks in this place. Everyone has some sort of devotional on their desk. It's sad

Today I prayed for God's peace and ask that he lands me a job closer to home, same pay or even a little higher. Either way I'd love a job much closer to home. I'm really sick of these companies that mistreat staff.

On a different note I opened up a few Capitol One 360 accounts. I notice that having one sinking fund account isn't working for me. I'm constantly using the money for car repairs. So sinking fund 1 is strictly for car maintenance and saving for car insurance while the others is for Christmas, medical and upcoming sorority expenses.

I've updated my side bar to show CC4 is paid off. Tomorrow after I pay my tithes, this sucker will be gone. Thank God! Only five left and this stupid student loan.

I reached out to my attorney to find out what the devil is going on with the sale of my dad's house. We are literally into three months from the court order 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️. He screwed up and accepted a bid without my permission from my brother that was lower than the last bid, he's trying to tell me that's what the judge ordered so I asked for s copy of the order and still haven't received it. I'm really over this and quite frankly I don't care just sell this house and be done with it.

Geesh

I'm so stressed out it is taking a toll on me, I hate my job, want this house sold plus I'm in debt. Dave is right when he says the borrower is slave to the lender. Had I. It had all this debt I could quit that place

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8 Responses to “Stressed”

  1. creditcardfree Says:
    April 12th, 2018 at 10:51 am 1523530283
    1523530283

    If you look for the bad, that is what you will see. Look for the good! And sometimes we learn more from the journey of our problems than the conclusion of them. Hang in there, it is likely it will all get resolved.

  2. Carol Says:
    April 12th, 2018 at 12:03 pm 1523534604
    1523534604

    Amber, you have been doing so well. You get to have your feelings, but it's better for you if they don't sidetrack you. This too shall pass ( the house stuff) and the debt is going fast. Just do your gazelle intensity and things will fall into place. I hope they all fall right for you!

  3. AnotherReader Says:
    April 12th, 2018 at 01:07 pm 1523538461
    1523538461

    Why did YOUR attorney accept a lower bid from your brother? He has a responsibility to get the highest possible value for the property unless the probate judge gave specific direction about selling the property to your brother, such as allowing him to buy it at a set percentage of the highest bid. In your shoes, I would insist on an explanation and a copy of the order to review.

    Can your brother afford the property? Does he qualify for a mortgage or does he have cash? Or is he dragging this out by making a bid that he cannot honor?

  4. snafu Says:
    April 12th, 2018 at 01:42 pm 1523540554
    1523540554

    I add my voice to Another Reader. Who is this lawyer working for? Brother has lived in this house without paying rent since dad passed April 2016. Is this yet another scam? Where is the evidence brother has approved financing in place? Does this mean after you pay your share of various taxes, utilities, probable penalties, real estate fees and lawyer, brother sells house to the higher bidder and pockets the profit ? Hope you can take strength from your SA friends .

  5. DW Says:
    April 12th, 2018 at 07:41 pm 1523562111
    1523562111

    Hello Amber,
    I don’t want to depress you more but I’m a little confused with your sidebar. You said there are 5 remaining credit cards but they sidebar is showing CC5-CC10, which equals 6.
    Is this correct?

  6. Debtfreeme Says:
    April 12th, 2018 at 11:52 pm 1523577164
    1523577164

    When you are making the final payment to he cc call them. There will be a small amount of inyerest. Ask for the pay off amount.

  7. Amber Says:
    April 13th, 2018 at 02:11 am 1523585473
    1523585473

    Thanks for words of encouragement everyone, I needed it.

    Lol, Debtfree you're right, it's actually six

  8. DW Says:
    April 13th, 2018 at 10:15 am 1523614503
    1523614503

    Get that house sold and it will be ZERO.

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