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AC Update and Other Stuff

October 9th, 2019 at 02:55 am

SO came over and cleaned out the AC, it appears as though that’s what the issue was. Fingers crossed 🤞🏾 I’ll be sure to put that on my monthly to do list.

We ended up chatting a little. I was surprised to hear him say that he told his mom that he’ll be moving soon. I thought he’d never leave her house.

He also mentioned that sometimes he goes into a store and picks something up but realizes that something else is more important and that he’s working on his finances. I shared with him, that I understood, and that my goal is to be debt free in seven years and I can’t be debt free eating out everyday.

He then said, “sometimes I wake up at night and I just cry, I realize that I’m in this mess due to my own actions.” I felt really bad for him. I mentioned to him that if he needed to talk, to call me.

I’ll listen, and provide sound advice. God knows if I didn’t have my friends, I’d probably would have jumped off a bridge. This time our conversation was different, for some reason I felt like he wasn’t himself, something was missing and that worries me.

As I told him, change is hard, he’ll get through it, he just have to keep pushing through.

I read your previous comments and I never thought about counseling for him, I only thought about it for his mom. I’m going to suggest he calls someone.

Posted in Family/Friends | 4 Comments »

4 Responses to “AC Update and Other Stuff”

  1. Lucky Robin Says:
    October 9th, 2019 at 05:07 am 1570597637
    1570597637

    Maybe he's finally hitting rock bottom and he's ready to change. Counseling would help.

  2. Carol Says:
    October 9th, 2019 at 10:40 am 1570617638
    1570617638

    May I suggest that when you mention counseling, it should be with the goal of helping him figure out things. ( no mention of his mother) Counseling can be great-- someone whose job is to focus on you.

  3. Amber Says:
    October 9th, 2019 at 10:44 am 1570617868
    1570617868

    @Carol thanks for the tip. I’ll be sure to do that

  4. Creditcardfree Says:
    October 9th, 2019 at 12:21 pm 1570623708
    1570623708

    I would mention counseling in the realm of simply helping him process and cope during this transition in his life. Even one or two sessions can be helpful if money is an issue.

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