I have no idea what triggered my ex but he broke down and told me he has to get his life together. He has a client, a few who are millionaires, who want to help him and he finally spoke with one today. He said he’s tired of living the way he is living.
For starters he need to focus on him and not the mother, in my opinion. The mother keeps him in a financial black hole. I’m not saying not to help mom; however, he’s not in a financial position to do so at this time and parents shouldn’t live a reckless life with the intent that it’s their kids responsibility to take care of them.
I think it hit home because I’m trucking along, much better mind you, without him. I think this trip I’m taking and his inability to do the same is nudging at him, not mention him being sick and no money saved. Either way what ever the cause, I’m glad he’s finally realized he has to get his life together.
I’m not saying that I’m the queen of doing right financially but at least I’m willing to try. All I ever asked is that he tried.
April 17th, 2022 at 01:45 pm 1650203107
April 17th, 2022 at 03:17 pm 1650208657
That guy used you and kept you down because you tried to see the best in him.
Please make this vow today. You will support him with words but you will never give him one cent of your hard earned money, or let him use you for again.
Write it on a card and put it in your wallet.
Even if you think I am mean or crazy or I don’t know him.
You have come too far to ever be dragged down again.
You have earned and you deserve very strong ng le good thing that comes your way.