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July 1st, 2017 at 07:02 am

Hi all,

Hope all is well, I'm just checking in.

Regarding my dad's home, we are having a hard time providing my brother the notice, and unfortunately I don't know where he works to have him served. My attorney reached out to his attorney who informed him that he dropped my brother because he wanted him to do some unethical stuff. All I could do was laugh and then think and say how sad.
I think I know where but I'm just waiting on confirmation. Once I confirm I can provide my attorney the info to have him served at work. I hate to do it there but he's never home, or he's there and not answering.

Next I wanted to pay off my CC yesterday, the balance is $670. I can't because my fiancΓ© don't have his portion of the bills (e.g rent, water) . Smh I have put the wedding off for two years because he has to prove to me that he's able to manage or will be taking the steps to get financially fit. In the mist of everything I found out that his mother hasn't been paying him and when she does she's short. He works for the family business. I've told him over and over that he needs to take over from his mother or he's going to find himself in one big mess. He's crazy about his mom and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I'm thinking, your mom isn't too crazy about you, you live on your own, engaged and have bills to pay. Either way, there won't be a wedding if he doesn't get it together. We are suppose to start the pre marital counseling and I'm hoping this will help so that he can see it's okay to love mom but not be abused.

That's it in a nutshell

3 Responses to “Update ”

  1. snafu Says:

    I'm disappointed there has been no progress in getting brother out of dad's house in all this time. I wonder if informal conversation with neighbours might give some clues about brother's behaviour, hours and place of employment. Would a more aggressive lawyer be more appropriate? How does your guy explain 15 months without progress? Meanwhile, have you confirmed that utilities and taxes have been paid by due dates? Technically, you are the owner of the house no matter who lives there.

    I think you also need to work out the market value for rental at least from April 2016. Brother will need to pay for any damage during his tenancy and rental at least from the transfer of ownership. You will need value for eventual distribution sums to all siblings.

  2. veronak Says:

    SNAFU it has been crazy, the attorney knows what he's doing but just is very slow. We actually didn't start taking care of things until August because I was fixing the house up and was to move in on one side while my brother who lived in the back started acting up, so we move forward. We had a few investors to come out, well scheduled a few and only two showed and one made an offer. If my brother started up I'll make him pay the back rent he owes to the estate. I transferred all the ultilies out of dad's name except the water but get an update each month regarding payments

  3. rob62521 Says:

    So sorry about the brother situation. Hope you can get that situation resolved and can move on.

    Sad about the fiance and his mother. You are wise to wait until you see what happens. You can love someone, but that doesn't mean you let that person take advantage of you and that's what it sounds like with him and his mom.

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