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February 24th, 2019 at 05:48 pm

Hi all!

Today, I paid $608.65 on CC9, it feels greaaaaaaatttttttt! New balance is $3900.

I really thought I was going to struggle with this CC but God has allowed me to push through.

In different news my crazy brother started up again. I told my attorney that I’m not paying any other legal fees so what ever he wanted to do he can. Prior to my dad dying, I spoke with my siblings about putting a AC unit in the house, to bring dad home on hospice, and dad expressed he wanted to go home. The normal cost was over $5000 but we got a break because we paid cash. My brother subpoena the bank and saw the withdrawal. Um (I had power of attorney) like I told my attorneys all talked about and agreed. The ac was put in and three days later dad came home and died. He can give me the unit, I’ll put the money back but once dad dies the money is mine since I’m the beneficiary.

Crazy, I’m over it.

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6 Responses to “Debt and family ”

  1. crazyliblady Says:
    February 24th, 2019 at 06:21 pm 1551032512
    1551032512

    I'm so sorry your brother is being such a jerk. They say blood is thicker than water, but I think when money enters the equation, people just sometimes act nuts. I'm happy to hear you are doing so well with your cc payoff. Is the current payment from the tax refund?

  2. Amber Says:
    February 24th, 2019 at 06:58 pm 1551034728
    1551034728

    Thanks Crazyliblady 😄
    The payment is actually the SO portion of bills due (mortgage, HOA) for March. I’ve made up in my mind that he’s really bad with money, I had a talk with him and told him if he stayed after the move out date that I was not going into 2019 with his bad money habits. Long story short, I decided to pay my bills as if he was not living here,to ensure that I could, so that if he screwed up, I knew I would be fine. Well surprisingly he’s been holding up his end, pretty well. He even mentioned he wanted us to take FPU. So when I get is portion, which thankfully is bedore the due dates, I throw it at my CC debt.

  3. rob62521 Says:
    February 24th, 2019 at 07:47 pm 1551037676
    1551037676

    It is sad that in times of a parent's death, that the evil greedy folks come out in full force. I'm sorry your brother is being such a jerk. You and your sibs did what your dad wanted and he wanted to go home. Hang in there!

  4. Amber Says:
    February 25th, 2019 at 01:17 am 1551057422
    1551057422

    Thanks Robb, it just amazes me that he now can’t remember a thing. If push comes to shove I can have the text messages retrieved

  5. LuckyRobin Says:
    February 25th, 2019 at 04:29 am 1551068990
    1551068990

    One of these days your brother's karma is going to catch up with him, even if only on judgement day.

  6. Amber Says:
    February 25th, 2019 at 05:27 pm 1551115650
    1551115650

    LR, I have a feeling you’re right

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